50 Daily Questions to Ask Your Partner

Relationships thrive on curiosity. When you stop asking questions, you stop learning about each other. But coming up with something meaningful to ask every single day? That's harder than it sounds.

Here are 50 daily questions for couples — organized from lighthearted to deep — that you can use to spark real conversations.

Lighthearted & Fun

1. What's the most random thing that made you smile today?
2. If we could teleport anywhere for dinner tonight, where would we go?
3. What song is stuck in your head right now?
4. What's a skill you'd love to learn together?
5. If you could relive one day from the past year, which would it be?
6. What's something small I do that you find attractive?
7. Would you rather have a personal chef or a personal masseuse?
8. What's a movie we need to rewatch together?
9. If we had a couples podcast, what would it be called?
10. What's your current guilty pleasure?

Getting to Know Each Other Better

1. What's something you believed as a kid that you now think is funny?
2. What's a tradition from your family you'd want to bring into ours?
3. When do you feel most like yourself?
4. What's a compliment someone gave you that you still think about?
5. What does your ideal lazy Sunday look like?
6. What's something you're proud of that you don't talk about much?
7. If money weren't an issue, what would you do with your time?
8. What's a small thing that always improves your mood?
9. What subject could you give a 20-minute talk on with no preparation?
10. What's a habit you want to build this year?

About Us

1. What's your favorite memory of us so far?
2. When did you first realize you had feelings for me?
3. What's something we do well together?
4. What's a trip you want us to take in the next year?
5. How do you most like to receive love — words, touch, time, gifts, or acts of service?
6. What's something new you'd like us to try?
7. What's a moment when you felt really supported by me?
8. If we could create one new tradition, what would it be?
9. What's something I do that always makes your day better?
10. Where do you see us in five years?

Going Deeper

1. What's something you're working through right now that I can support you with?
2. What does "feeling secure" in a relationship mean to you?
3. Is there something you've been wanting to tell me but haven't found the right moment?
4. What's a fear you've overcome, and what helped?
5. How do you handle stress, and how can I help when you're in that mode?
6. What does forgiveness look like to you?
7. What's a lesson from a past relationship that shaped how you love now?
8. When do you feel most connected to me?
9. What's something you wish more people understood about you?
10. What does "home" mean to you?

Looking Forward

1. What's a dream you haven't told anyone about?
2. What kind of old couple do you want us to be?
3. If we could write a letter to ourselves to open in 10 years, what would you say?
4. What's one thing you want to accomplish this year, and how can I help?
5. What's a value you want to be the foundation of our relationship?
6. How do you want to grow as a person in the next few years?
7. What would make this the best year of our relationship so far?
8. What's something you want to experience together before we're 50?
9. If you could guarantee one thing about our future, what would it be?
10. What does your ideal life together look like?

Make It a Daily Habit

The hardest part isn't finding questions — it's remembering to ask them. That's why building it into a daily routine matters.

Some couples set a recurring reminder. Others use apps that serve up a new question each day so neither partner has to come up with one.

Lovestruck does exactly this — it gives both partners one question per day, and you each answer independently before seeing the other's response. It removes the awkwardness of asking and turns it into a shared ritual that takes less than a minute.

Whatever method you choose, the important thing is consistency. One question a day, every day, adds up to a relationship where you never stop learning about each other.